Traphouse

As much as women complain about the antics of men in relationships  the truth is they have just as much at stake. The consequences of getting involved with a woman who hasn't fully recognized the Goddess within herself can be detrimental. Ive always said the any woman that is incessantly chasing a man is looking for him to give something to her that she needs to be giving herself, and that could be any number of things. One of the main scenarios this plays out in is women getting pregnant by men who have no intention of being exclusive with them. There are women who have a mans baby thinking that will solidify her position in his life financially and emotionally. This is a catastrophe. If a man has no intention to have an exclusive relationship with you there is nothing you can do to change his mind. These relationships form toxic bonds, and to add insult to injury brings another life into the equation. Not only have you tampered with the boundaries of your own self esteem, but you have endangered the existence of another fellow man. I say this because the extent the man will be in the childs life could possibly change due to the extent of how he wants the woman in his life. This is why these types of relationships are best to avoid. No one should have to feel trapped by the demons of anothers faulty self love and self worth. If a man wants to have a committed relationship with you then you wont have to do anything short of just existing to find out that's the case. If you are having sex with a man and the relationship ceases  to escalate from there then it wasn't supposed to. Stop believing sex and children are constituents to healthy relationships and manipulating men to get what you want. Even if you do end up having a child by this man the extent the commitment would go  to do would be different had he decided to commit to you himself. Youre still getting shortchanged the love you deserve from the universe, but this love must first come from self. As we all know it is love of self that is the catalyst for every other love from another person. You must go  deep within yourself to bring about another experience. Ones that aren't driven by desperation and lack but from a woman that is whole and complete within herself. Don't stop being yourself to get a man. Don't get pregnant by a man in hopes of keeping him. Keep being the wonderful person  you are and let a man prove to you why its worth your time to consider marriage and children with him. It should all work out in your favor.