Love Yourz

" No such thing as a life thats better than yours"

Ive been reading some of Oprah Winfrey's interview clips from her " Live Your Best Life" series, and she mentioned one of the keys to her happiness is that she is not envious of anyone. I gave the sentiment some thought, and came to the conclusion that its one of the reasons Im so happy as well. Ive noticed my happiness factor in myself, and the happiness factor of women who were excruciatingly jealous or envious of me, and there is a notable difference. Jealousy and envy definitely have the ability to affect our happiness factor.  Im not a very jealous or envious person, and I can confirm that this has made my happiness factor skyrocket. Jealousy and envy are emotional compasses guiding your inner desire radar to something you wish to cultivate within yourself. Its a simple alert to our emotions saying " I want what that person has!" Jealousy and envy are teachers. The only reason that they have such a negative cause and effect is because subconsciously youve told yourself that you cant have whatever quality or lifestyle accoutrement the other party possesses. What would your life look like if you never denied yourself any good thing or possession you require? What if you had full confidence in your talents, abilities, and gifts that you were confident in the fact that no one was able to exist in the magnanimous way you exist? I imagine you would allow your life to be led by inspiration instead of envy and jealousy. The more supportive you are of other women in making their dreams come true, the closer you are to the fulfillment of your desires. As you function from a place of support, collaboration, and inspiration the more your perspective shifts from one of lack mentality to abundance mentality. There is more than enough accomplishments and blessings to go around for everyone. Youll never be able to appreciate the blessings manifesting in your life if youre always looking over your shoulder at whats on the next person's plate.  The next time you find yourself feeling jealous or envious ask yourself what those emotions are trying to teach you about what you want to have in your life, then dedicate yourself to a mission to fulfilling those wishes. Function from a place of confidence, self love, and knowledge of self to know that you are fully capable of making your dreams come true without putting other people down in the process. Jealousy and envy manifest as a glitch in our personal belief system. Ultimately it isnt about another person, but our own beliefs about what we are capable of achieving in our lives. Change your inner converstaion to one where you are being your bestfriend, and always cheering for yourself as a winner. Believe you are capable of achieving and receiving amazing things and your manifestations will begin to match your beliefs. Nobody is you, and that is your power! There may be people who look, talk, behave, and function similar to you, but no one is you! You are the only you that there is. Make a list of all your qualities and achievements that make you proud to be yourself and refer to it in weakness moments of jealousy and envy. With the knowledge of knowing that you can support and uplift other women while still being cognizant of your power as an individual, very rarely will you experience jealousy or envy.  Its time for women to be as happy as they possibly can be. You dont have to be jealosu or envious. You have to love yourself, and know that the blessings and all good things of yours are your birthright if you belive it to be so. Become your biggest fan, and know nobody on Earth can change the fact that youre blessed to be yourself.  Theres no such thing as a life thats better than yours! Ase