Faithful For A Fellow

I uploaded a picture of a wife because we have to see ourselves being who we want to be in the future in the present to manifest our visions. This picture is so lit!

Its so important to be mindful of the thoughts we feed ourselves about the types of experiences that are available to us, even and especially, in love. I hear and see women offer intentions to the Universe about wanting to experience healthy love relationships, but then say things like " Men arent shit.", " There are no good men available", and " All men are dogs". I feel like its so important for women with this perspective to realize that they cannot offer intent to the Universe about finding a good man, then offer the same thought that there are no good men available. Fear and faith cannot coexist in the same environment. You have to choose which one you are going to invest your energy in. You cannot place your values and goals on having a healthy relationship then indulge in negative thought patterns about the very relationship you want to manifest. Apart of experiencing pleasurable dating, mating, and relating experiences is believing that there are good men out there who want to offer them to you. Engaging in positive thought processes about what you desire your love life to look like and the men you want to be available to provide them for you is an important step in birthing it into your reality. Put yourself out there and get to know and date as many men as possible and develop the confidence to know that eventually the one that you are destined to curate a life with will stay. My mother got married for the first time in 2022 at the ripe age of 58 after being with her lover for many years. Ive watched her weather the vicissitudes of being a single parent and other trials and tribulations in romance, but she never gave up on her dream of marriage! I love that for her and feel like all women can take a page out of her book. You wouldnt let someone shake your faith in achieving your goals in your career or work life, so apply that same grit and determination in your love life. Dont let anyone come between you and the life you wish to manifest for yourself in love and romance no matter how many severe heartbreaks you endure. Dust yourself off and continue heading in the direction of your dreams and dont let any man get the best out of you or tarnish your belief in yourself because thats really all you have. Positive thinking and energy is important in manifestation processes. Have fun while dating and have confidence that eventually one of those men will be the one who will date you and give you romance forever, and the only thing you have to do is be confident in your amazing life for him to come forward. I wish all my mermaids the power to believe in themselves and believe in the Universe and the power of positive thoughts!