Raining Men

I absolutely love the Rihanna song " Raining Men" because it personifies the very attitude and perspective women should acquire while dating to find their true love! In the song she says " They be falling like the rain so we aint running out! Oh, its raining men, gurl what you worried bout?!" Some of the best dating advice Ive ever received has been about changing my perspective to one of lack mentality to abundance mentality. I feel like as women when we get deeply emotionally and physically involved with a man we are attracted  to we can begin to believe that what we really want is that man and forget that our true goal is a healthy, committed, long term relationship and that can come from PLENTY of men! Its very important to instead of committing to one man and his decision to pursue a relationship with us, that we commit to our vision of how we see ourselves in love and life! Shutting out all of your other dating options in love because you have seemingly found just one man who is willing to give it to you is unwise and a sign of naivete. Dating is about finding out what your true needs and values are in a relationship and getting them met by as many men as possible until you have succesfully manifested the commitment you desire. You never want to put all your eggs in one basket. You want to be fully transparent and lucid in the relationship you intend to have then be open to fulfilling that vision with many men. Women tend to date one man and start pining away for that one man forgetting that the person that can fulfill their desires can come from a SEA of men! Dating is supposed to be an enjoyable, fun, healthy, seamless and easy process but you cant have that type of experience if youre making one man and his thoughts, needs, and feelings more important than what it is you truly desire to create within your love life. Dont commit to just any man or be so focused on just one man that you forget that what you want is a relationship with someone that brings you happiness and the truth is that  their are a  multitude of men who can give that to you. Have fun. Create options for yourself and stay committed to what it is you wish to curate and manifest in romance, and remember what the Goddess mermaid Rihanna has told us, ITS RAINING MEN!!!! = )