My Goodies, Not My Goodies

One of my favorite Libra mermaids has been practicing celibacy for ten years, and I also posted this video of Mya, also a libra, who has been practicing for seven years. Lenny Kravitz has also testified to being celibate for nine years. I hit my fifth year of celibacy in January 2025, and before that I was celibate for 10 years, from 2009 to 2019. I absolutely love and relish when I find other mermaids who have also embarked on a celibacy journey. In this male driven, centered, and prioritized society, it is very refreshing. Celibacy assists you with seeing the person you are entertaining romantically through a realistic lens free of illusion. Sex often creates the illusion of relationship while dating and courtship help create an actual relationship. When you take away being sexually active you can actually ascertain just what the man provides in the relationship without the debris of the expectations you created due to being intimate. When you are celibate, you get to ask yourself just what that person can contribute to your life in terms of physical, emotional, spiritual, and financial compatibility.  Personally, I fell in love with a man who treated me properly and had sex with him. I decided from that point forward that I wouldn't have sex unless I was being made to feel how I felt in that relationship. I had experienced the difference between having sex with a man who only desired me in that manner and having sex with a man who actually loved me, and it changed everything! Also, in all honesty, I'm just simply not a woman that enjoys being sexually active with men I'm not in a commitment with. Many years of being sexually active have taught me that Im simply not a woman who can have sex in that manner. Sex is sacred, spiritual, passionate, precious, holy.  It is meant for procreation. It is meant as an enmeshment of souls between two beings who are wholeheartedly committed to growing in love together and bringing the best out of each other. It is not meant to be some cavalier, whimsical decision made in the heat of a passionate moment. Ironically, the more I centered a celibacy mindset, the healthier my relationship with my sexuality became.  This is another one of the benefits of celibacy. It clarifies your vision of who you truly are in relationships. Any person who does not support that vision of yourself in a healthy manner can be subtracted from the list of people who can engage with you physically. Sometimes you simply can't let a man get the best of you like this Mya song states, and sharing your sexual energy is one of the most precious gifts in the world. Celibacy is awesome, and once you have a positive amount of self-worth and self-esteem, it is also a surprisingly easy lifestyle to adopt. Im all for women owning their sexuality and being sex positive and being celibate is one of the most sex positive endeavors you can adhere to. Just thought I'd share my tease on how I view things! All my love! xoxo