To the left, To the left

I want all of my mermaids living a life decadent in wealth, luxury, friendship, love, and art. I want to see them experiencing the best life has to offer in every aspect. Today's release of video footage of Saweetie and Quavo quarreling physically has left me inconsolable and devastated, hence my choosing " Bust Your Windows" as a topic song. To witness the reality of her relationship as opposed to what was being projected during the duration of their love has me a bit miffed. I do not want to try to imagine the depths of their demise, and I do not know the future I am just glad she left. More than a few of my post have talked about the divine feminine, and one of the most divinely feminine things you can do is leave when a relationship is not meeting your expectations. Embodying feminine energy is being confident of your value and worth even in the midst of adversity, and walking away from anyone who doesnt treat you along the guidelines of your vision. When the other orishas didnt treat Oshun how she deserved to be treated and didnt acknowledge her as an asset to the creation of the world, she did not beg, plead, or try to coerce them. She retreated to the rivers and the moon and adorned herself in Oshun like activities until they beseeched her to return to civilization and disperse her love and beauty. All of our lives wont emulate Oshun in the sense that we should or could return after being deeply hurt, offended, and ignored. In most scenarios our decision to remove ourselves from spaces that do not honor our higher selves should be permanent. The truth is all relationships have differences, but what belongs to us in love and life are rarely the things we have to fight and compromise our inner equilibrium for. Love can be easy. It doesnt have to feel hard. Jada mentioned that her and Will have never even raised their voices at each other in 21 years. It doesnt have to be crazy to be real. I feel like all mermaids should be taught that lesson. Walk away from any person, place, or thing that compromises your peace, be it romantic or otherwise. Walking away is a deeply, feminine response that can fulfill you emotionally. I wish Saweetie and any other mermaid wrestling with a " should i stay or should i go?" mentality the clarity that comes when we choose ourselves over and over.